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Keep the promises you make to yourself

We make promises to others we wouldn't think of breaking: our spouses, friends, our business partners our coworkers. Yet, we have no problems breaking the promises we make to ourselves. "I won't waste time on useless sites", "I'll stop procrastinating", "I'll do better", "I won't lose my temper", "I won't drink anymore", the list goes on and on. We let ourselves break those promises, even the same ones over and over. How much longer will we let this go on? We wouldn't tolerate this behavior from others, yet we do it to ourselves.  "Self-esteem is just the reputation that you have with yourself. You'll always know." - Naval Ravikant. No one else may not know but you always will. How many more promises are you going to keep breaking to yourself? Is this how you would treat your family and friends? Maybe this is the reason why you have doubts. You've encountered your own example of the many t...

Free Will

we all have a meeting with our fate
we are all destined to do what we came here to do
we all have that moment when we realize this is it
we are the choice to act on it or not

our free will is to decide to act on our fate or not
our fate chooses us, we choose to do or not to do
if you free will not to do, your life may be fine but it will not be fulfilled and there always be a longing

if you fate, you will become fully realized  
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